It will be your duty, and it will be your pleasure too to estimate her (as you chose her) by the qualities that she has, and not by the qualities she may not have.

Charles Dickens
About This Quote

If you can appreciate a person for their talents and characteristics rather than their faults, it is much more likely that you will find happiness with them. In this quote, the author is suggesting that people instead of worrying about what they do not have should focus on the things they do have. If a person does not have any particular qualities, then they shouldn't be concerned about those qualities. Instead, they should work to improve those qualities, as long as the person is willing to try.

Source: David Copperfield

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